In my Communication Superstar sessions clients often ask for examples of how I speak to my sweetheart and I have a recent (and decent) example I can share. Below is a simple text I sent to start his day/week off right. This may not seem like a big deal but it is for him for a couple reasons. He travels for work and I was communicating the following to him:
Let's watch this viral video and then we'll continue.
Now this video is funny because a toddler is saying something adults say and that's funny. And we can discern she's heard her mother tell someone else that very statement repeatedly. But imagine if she's never corrected and goes to school and says this to her teacher? That's not going to go over well. It's disrespectful.
All day every day women say things to men that they've been hearing on sitcoms, in songs and from relatives that should've been corrected and removed from their speech at some point of maturity but haven't been. I hear women often telling their men, "You better ..." as if they're mothers speaking to children instead of queens honoring kings. And, let me just say as one who HAD to get her mouth under control before engaging in a mature relationship, wrong speech will hinder your ability to attract the man of your dreams.
On the other hand if you humble yourself, pay attention to reactions and receive feedback you can become a super communicator. Honestly my mouth was bad for many years, and if I learned to speak right words you can, too. The Communication Superstar sessions are my second-most popular, behind Financial Breakthrough, because they're effective.
If you're ready to meet your Valentine and keep him, book a session today. If you've had several first dates that didn't go anywhere, book a session today. If you're ready to learn to tell him what you want and get it, book a session now.
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