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I Know Why She's Single

1/5/2017

Do you have social media friends that you follow simply because you love the foolishness they post? I have one who's particularly entertaining. She posts the craziest commentary and I often read the posts, and whincing, say, "That's why she's still single."

Here are three no-no's that frequent her commentary that repel men of quality from her life:

Constantly listing the types of men to shun. No one wants to know your dislikes before your likes. When getting to know someone, they ask what you like, love and are passionate about, not what you dislike. Those things are learned over time through observing reactions.
95% of posts are self-focused. Men don't actually enjoy self-centered people in close-intimate relationships. They are drawn to women who make them the apple of their eye. This doesn't mean women should lie down and be dogs. What it means is men require attention because out in the world they're usually just one of many.
Pride in a lengthy list of must-haves. Marriage-minded men have enough on their plates considering if they can afford a wife, family and all necessities, not to mention the emotional stuff. So when they're confronted with a list of what's required to even be considered by some women before approaching them, they often just forget it and gravitate toward someone less demanding.

If you think you may be repelling the quality of man you want in your life because of your words, I can help. I've turned things around for myself and for many other women as well. Book a Communication Superstar Session or schedule a call so you can attract what you truly desire in a man.

It's 2017 ... time to do what's necessary to get the relationship you want.

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I Know Why She's Single

Zari Banks, M.Ed